The Lede

Max Miller’s Victim Mentality

马克斯·米勒的受害者心态
The Republican congressman’s bitter domestic dispute—in which he’s accused of physical abuse by his ex-wife, the daughter of an Ohio senator—is testing his party’s willingness to defend the indefensible.
这位共和党国会议员与前妻之间激烈的家庭纠纷,正在考验其政党为不可辩护之事辩护的意愿。他的前妻是俄亥俄州一位参议员的女儿,指控米勒对她实施身体虐待。
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Photograph by Al Drago / Bloomberg / Getty

In June of 2025, five days after two Democratic state legislators in Minnesota were shot on their doorsteps by a man posing as a cop, Max Miller, a young Republican congressman from Ohio, said that he, too, had been the victim of a startling act of political violence. Miller, who comes from a prominent Jewish family in Cleveland and is avowedly pro-Israel, said in both a call to 911 and then in a defiant social-media post that, while driving on Interstate 90, a man in a Tesla waving a Palestinian flag had tried to “run me off the road.” The other driver, Miller said, also threatened to cut both Miller’s throat and his daughter’s, and shouted, “You’re a dirty Jew” and “I’m going to fucking kill you all.” Members of both parties quickly denounced the attack, pointing to it as a sign of rising political violence and antisemitism—Hakeem Jeffries and the Democratic House leadership put out a statement condemning it “in the strongest possible terms”—and the national political-violence story pivoted a bit away from Minnesota, since now members of both parties seemed like targets. Soon, a thirty-six-year-old family-medicine doctor named Feras Hamdan turned himself in to police, acknowledging that he’d been the person who had encountered Miller on the highway, and eventually pleaded guilty to reduced charges that carried no jail time.

2025年6月,明尼苏达州两名民主党州议员在家门口被一名假扮警察的男子枪击,五天后,来自俄亥俄州的年轻共和党国会议员马克斯·米勒(Max Miller)声称,自己也是一起骇人听闻的政治暴力事件的受害者。米勒出身于克利夫兰一个显赫的犹太家庭,公开支持以色列。他在拨打911报警电话以及随后发布的一条态度强硬的社交媒体帖子中称,自己在90号州际公路上驾车时,一名开着特斯拉、挥舞巴勒斯坦国旗的男子试图“把我逼下公路”。米勒说,那名司机还威胁要割断他和女儿的喉咙,并大喊“你这个肮脏的犹太人”和“我要把你们全都他妈的杀光”。两党成员迅速谴责了这次袭击,将其视为政治暴力和反犹主义抬头的迹象——哈基姆·杰弗里斯(Hakeem Jeffries)和众议院民主党领导层发表声明,“以最强烈的措辞”予以谴责——全国政治暴力事件的叙事焦点也稍稍从明尼苏达州移开,因为现在两党成员似乎都成了攻击目标。很快,一位名叫费拉斯·哈姆丹(Feras Hamdan)的三十六岁家庭医学医生向警方自首,承认自己就是在高速公路上与米勒相遇的人,并最终对减轻后的指控认罪,没有判处监禁。

This incident, and its aftermath, caught my attention a few months later, when I was working on a story about patterns in political violence across the country, but I struggled to make sense of Miller’s account. Judges tend to throw the book at anyone who attacks an elected official, let alone a perpetrator who calls one a “dirty Jew” and threatens to kill his infant daughter. Yet Hamdan’s sentence was light, and he quickly resumed his medical practice. Extensive political conversations rarely take place between drivers speeding along a highway in separate cars; I found it difficult to picture a single man alternately driving his car, carrying on an involved screaming match through a window, waving a flag, and trying to ram another car off the road, as Hamdan was accused of doing. (Last fall, when I tried to reach Miller to ask for more details, I got nowhere.) And, though Hamdan pleaded guilty to the misdemeanor, he also sued Miller for defamation, claiming that the congressman had greatly exaggerated the incident. (The lawsuit is still ongoing—Miller has filed a countersuit—but, in a press release, Hamdan’s attorneys noted that data pulled from Hamdan’s Tesla “showed that Hamdan’s windows were up during the entire alleged incident, and that the movement of his steering wheel was inconsistent with any effort to swerve or ‘run Miller off the road.’ ”)

几个月后,当我着手做一篇关于全国政治暴力模式的报道时,这起事件及其后续引起了我的注意,但我却难以理清米勒的叙述。法官通常会对任何袭击民选官员的人严加惩处,更不用说一个骂对方是“肮脏的犹太人”并威胁要杀死他幼女的施暴者了。然而,哈姆丹的判决却很轻,而且他很快恢复了行医。在高速公路上各自驾车飞驰的司机之间,很少会发生深入的政治对话;我很难想象一个人能像哈姆丹被指控的那样,一边开车,一边隔着车窗进行激烈的对骂,一边挥舞旗帜,一边又试图将另一辆车撞下公路。(去年秋天,我试图联系米勒询问更多细节,但一无所获。)而且,尽管哈姆丹对轻罪指控表示认罪,但他也以诽谤罪起诉了米勒,声称这位国会议员严重夸大了事件。(诉讼仍在进行中——米勒已提起反诉——但在一份新闻稿中,哈姆丹的律师指出,从哈姆丹特斯拉汽车中提取的数据“显示,在整个被指控的事件中,哈姆丹的车窗都是关着的,而且他方向盘的动作与任何试图转向或‘将米勒逼下公路’的行为都不相符。”)

Miller is now the central figure in Washington’s most intimate and appalling ordeal. In allegations that surfaced as part of a child-protective-services investigation this year, Miller’s ex-wife, Emily Moreno, to whom he was married from 2022 to 2024, accused the congressman of hitting her, throwing her against a wall, tossing boiling water on her, and holding a gun to her head. She also said she believes, though she could not prove it, that Miller was responsible for breaking their daughter’s collarbone. Miller, who is in a competitive reëlection campaign, has vehemently denied all the allegations, and the Republican leadership has tried to downplay them—Speaker Mike Johnson, in May, told reporters, “I don’t get involved in the personal lives of members.” On Sunday, President Donald Trump dismissed the domestic-abuse claims as “just allegations.”

如今,米勒成了华盛顿最私密也最骇人听闻的丑闻的核心人物。在今年一项儿童保护服务调查中浮出水面的指控里,米勒的前妻艾米丽·莫雷诺(Emily Moreno)指控这位国会议员殴打她、将她摔向墙壁、向她泼沸水,并用枪指着她的头。两人于2022年结婚,2024年离婚。她还表示,尽管无法证明,但她相信米勒应对他们女儿锁骨骨折负责。米勒正面临一场竞争激烈的连任竞选,他极力否认所有指控,共和党领导层也试图淡化这些指控——众议院议长迈克·约翰逊(Mike Johnson)在五月份对记者说:“我不介入议员的私生活。”周日,唐纳德·特朗普总统将这些家庭虐待指控轻描淡写为“不过是些指控罢了”。

One complication for this posture is that Miller was previously accused of domestic violence by Stephanie Grisham, whom he had dated during Trump’s first term, when Grisham was Melania Trump’s press secretary, and whom he briefly sued for defamation. Another is that his ex-wife’s father is Bernie Moreno, a U.S. senator from Ohio, who is at least as important a figure to the White House as his son-in-law. On Sunday, Miller held a live stream during which he announced that he would release documents that would exonerate him. The trove included an audio exchange he had with his ex-wife in which she confronted him after finding needles by his bedside (Miller claimed that they were for testosterone-replacement therapy); Miller also accidentally released a shirtless picture of the two-year-old daughter he and Moreno share.

这种姿态面临的一个复杂因素是,米勒此前曾被斯蒂芬妮·格里沙姆(Stephanie Grisham)指控家庭暴力。格里沙姆在特朗普第一任期内曾与米勒约会,当时她是梅拉尼娅·特朗普的新闻秘书,米勒曾短暂地以诽谤罪起诉过她。另一个复杂因素是,他前妻的父亲是俄亥俄州的美国参议员伯尼·莫雷诺(Bernie Moreno),对白宫而言,他至少是和其女婿同等重要的人物。周日,米勒进行了一场直播,宣布将公布能证明自己清白的文件。这批文件中包括他与前妻的一段音频对话,前妻在他床边发现针头后与他对质(米勒声称那些是用于睾酮替代疗法的针剂);米勒还意外发布了一张他和莫雷诺所生的两岁女儿光着上身的照片。

As with many rising figures in the Republican Party, Miller and Trump have a history; the congressman served as a White House aide during the President’s first term in office. On Monday, Trump stuck up for Miller in public, in his own way. “He’s a good person,” the President told reporters, before amending, “I mean, I always thought he was a very good person.” Privately, according to Axios, Trump told Miller in a call that same day that “things aren’t looking good.” On Sunday, Moreno, who had long been silent, said that Miller should no longer serve in Congress. “He is a danger to my daughter, and I hold my breath every minute he has custody of my granddaughter,” Moreno said. Later that week, the senator mentioned that he’d spent part of Sunday afternoon in a suburban Cleveland police station, helping with the transfer of his two-year-old granddaughter, per the custody agreement. (According to Moreno, during the encounter, Miller had refused to hand over his daughter’s favorite stuffed blue bunny.) His family, Moreno went on, had endured “the seventh level of hell.”

与共和党内许多冉冉升起的人物一样,米勒和特朗普之间也有渊源;这位国会议员曾在总统第一任期内担任白宫助理。周一,特朗普以他自己的方式公开力挺米勒。“他是个好人,”总统对记者说,随后又修正道,“我的意思是,我一直觉得他是个非常好的人。”但据Axios报道,私下里,特朗普在同一天与米勒的通话中告诉他“情况看起来不妙”。周日,长期保持沉默的莫雷诺表示,米勒不应再在国会任职。“他对我女儿构成危险,他每次监护我孙女,我都屏住呼吸,”莫雷诺说。当周晚些时候,这位参议员提到,他周日下午的部分时间是在克利夫兰郊区的一个警察局度过的,协助按照监护权协议交接他两岁的孙女。(据莫雷诺说,在那次碰面中,米勒拒绝交出女儿最喜欢的蓝色毛绒兔子玩具。)莫雷诺接着说,他的家人经历了“第七层地狱般的煎熬”。

Compared with the overlapping crises threatening Trump’s political position—the Iran war, his failure to manage the cost of living, his multiplying corruption scandals—the Miller-Moreno conflict is a smaller matter. But much of Trump’s power has come from his command of his party, and so much of that control has come from his practice of excusing heinous behavior, beginning with his own. If the Democrats, who are promising to launch all manner of investigations, manage to win at least one chamber of Congress in the midterms, then the last two years of the Trump era are likely to focus on the question of the impunity of the President’s allies, and his power to preserve it. And so it was at once a moral abdication and perhaps a hint of how this is likely to end when Trump said, on Monday, “I’m going to let the families figure that out.”

与威胁特朗普政治地位的重重危机——伊朗战争、他未能控制生活成本、层出不穷的腐败丑闻——相比,米勒与莫雷诺的冲突是件小事。但特朗普的权力很大程度上来自他对政党的掌控,而这种掌控又在很大程度上来自他为恶劣行为开脱的习惯,首开先河的就是对他自己的行为。如果承诺发起各种调查的民主党人能在中期选举中赢得国会至少一个议院的控制权,那么特朗普时代的最后两年,焦点很可能集中在总统盟友不受惩罚的问题,以及他维持这种豁免权的力量上。因此,当特朗普周一说出“我打算让这两个家庭自己去解决”时,这既是一种道德上的弃权,或许也暗示了此事可能的结局。

When politicians are caught doing inexcusable things, they often gesture at their own supposed political indispensability. On his phone call with Trump, Miller had reportedly cited some promising polling on his reëlection campaign; on Monday, he insisted to reporters, “I can win.” (It is a scandal in itself that Republicans have downplayed the allegations against Miller for so long, as it was when Democrats declined to act decisively amid the mounting evidence against the Maine Senate candidate Graham Platner.) But most politicians are pretty easily replaced, a truism that Moreno reinforced by going public. It is almost tautological that the Republican candidate with the best chance of winning Ohio’s Seventh Congressional District in November is not the person who has been deemed unfit to serve by one of his party’s most senior figures in the state, who has also called on him to “end the clear pattern of abuse left in his wake.”

当政客们被逮到做了不可原谅的事情时,他们常常会暗示自己据称在政治上不可或缺。据报道,在与特朗普通话时,米勒引用了一些关于他连任竞选的可观民调数据;周一,他向记者坚称,“我能赢。”(共和党人长期淡化对米勒的指控,这本身就是一桩丑闻,正如民主党人面对不利于缅因州参议员候选人格雷厄姆·普拉特纳(Graham Platner)的越来越多证据时,迟迟未能果断行动一样。)但大多数政客都很容易被替换,莫雷诺将此事公之于众,更强化了这一不言自明的道理。几乎可以算作同义反复的是,在11月最有可能赢得俄亥俄州第七国会选区的共和党候选人,绝不会是一个被本党在该州最资深人物之一认定不适合任职、并呼吁他“结束其身后留下的明显虐待模式”的人。

On Tuesday night, Miller spent twenty-three minutes defending himself on Jake Tapper’s CNN show, an appearance during which several minutes were spent on whether Miller had, in fact, held a blue bunny hostage. But a deadline is approaching for Miller, against whom a congressional ethics probe opened this week. If he steps down from his reëlection race by next Monday, local Republican Party chairs in his district can select a replacement candidate; if not, Miller stays on the ballot. In the meantime, the G.O.P.’s internal frictions—this week, Trump also clashed with Jeanine Pirro, his previously loyal U.S. Attorney for Washington, D.C., after she withdrew charges against an ex-Olympic canoeist who was accused of damaging the lining to the National Mall’s reflecting pool (Pirro “folded like an umbrella,” Trump fumed)—are not just a concern for the G.O.P.’s chances in the midterms; they are also operating as glimpses of how Trump assesses his own strength: whether he believes his political position is still strong enough to defend his indefensible allies, or whether he will accede to Miller’s inevitable dispensability. ♦

周二晚上,米勒在杰克·塔珀(Jake Tapper)的CNN节目中花了二十三分锺为自己辩护,其中好几分锺都花在了讨论米勒是否真的“扣押”了一只蓝色兔子玩具。但对米勒来说,一个最后期限正在逼近,本周一项国会道德调查已经启动。如果他能在下周一之前退出连任竞选,他所在选区的当地共和党主席们可以选出一位替代候选人;如果不能,米勒的名字就会留在选票上。与此同时,共和党内部的摩擦——本周,特朗普还与他此前忠心耿耿的华盛顿特区联邦检察官珍妮娜·皮罗(Jeanine Pirro)发生冲突,原因是她撤销了对一名前奥运皮划艇运动员的指控,此人被控破坏了国家广场反射池的内衬(皮罗“像雨伞一样收了起来”,特朗普怒斥道)——不仅关系到共和党在中期选举中的胜算;它们也像一扇扇窗口,让人得以窥见特朗普如何评估自身实力:他是相信自己的政治地位依然足够强大,可以捍卫那些站不住脚的盟友,还是会默认米勒无可避免的可有可无。 ♦

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